Why cognitive flexibility could reshape young adults' views on marriage

Young adults in Germany are increasingly sceptical about marriage, with fewer under-30s tying the knot and rising divorce rates over the past decade. Yet a new Turkish study suggests a different trend—higher relationship satisfaction there is linked to more positive views of marriage. Researchers also found that cognitive flexibility plays a key role in shaping these attitudes.

Over the last ten years, German statistics reveal a 15% drop in marriages among those under 30, alongside climbing divorce figures. This contrasts sharply with findings from Turkey, where recent surveys show stable or even growing satisfaction with marriage, particularly among young adults holding traditional values.

A team of psychologists in Turkey explored why some young people still view marriage favourably. Their research identified a clear pattern: participants who reported greater satisfaction in their relationships also expressed more positive attitudes toward marriage. But the study went further, uncovering that cognitive flexibility—the ability to adjust one's thinking—strengthens this connection.

Individuals with higher cognitive flexibility were better at handling relationship challenges. As a result, they tended to see marriage as more stable and appealing. The findings suggest that psychological support, such as counselling aimed at improving cognitive flexibility, could help young adults develop healthier perspectives on long-term commitment.

The Turkish research highlights a link between relationship satisfaction, cognitive adaptability, and positive views on marriage. While German trends show declining interest in marriage, the study proposes targeted interventions to shift attitudes. Programmes focused on cognitive skills might offer a way to support young adults in forming more stable relationships.